Since research seems to indicate that marriage is emotionally and psychologically good for men and bad for women. Old news. Jessie Bernard ["The Paradox of the Happy Marriage". in Vivian Gornick and Barbara K. Moran, Eds., Woman in Sexist Society. NY: Basic Books 1971]; Also, Carol Tavris and Carol Offrir [The Longest War. NY: Harcourt, Brace, Jovanovitch 1977]. And others.