Feminists understand best about discarding the role scripts and starting off from scratch with no sexist assumptions. One good account of the ongoing process of creating a new kind of relationship instead of relying on the old sexist scripts can be found in the chapter called "The Bead of Sensation" in Robin Morgan's book The Anatomy of Freedom: Feminism, Physics, and Global Politics. [Garden City, NY: Anchor/Doubleday 1982]